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Contested or Opposed Divorces – What You Need to Know!

An unopposed divorce is also known as an uncontested divorce.

Contested or Opposed Divorces – What You Need to Know!

If you disagree with your spouse over the terms of your divorce, you may be facing a contested or opposed divorce. These cases can be more complex and require legal proceedings and court hearings.

It is crucial to seek the help of a family law attorney to protect your rights and guide you through the process. Martin Vermaak Attorneys has experienced attorneys who can assist with your contested or opposed divorce. Contact us for more information. Opposed and unopposed divorce illustration

Whether or not a divorce attorney represents the spouses, even if the spouses agree on everything except one aspect, the divorce will be a contested divorce.

So, even if the Parties agree on the division of the assets on where the Minor Children will live after the divorce, but they cannot agree on whether one spouse must pay spousal maintenance to the other, the divorce will be contested.

How Long Does a Contested Divorce Take to Be Finalised?

The length of time it takes for a contested divorce to be finalised in South Africa can vary greatly depending on the case’s specific circumstances. Factors that can affect the timeline include the complexity of the issues in dispute, the willingness of the parties to come to an agreement, and the availability of court dates. Sometimes, we can resolve a contested divorce relatively quickly through negotiation or mediation. In contrast, in other cases, it may take several months or even years to reach a final resolution through the court system.

It is vital to seek the guidance of a qualified family law attorney to help you understand the specific timeline for your case and to advocate for your rights throughout the process.

A typical contested divorce can take a few months to a few years (three years or longer is not unusual) to be finalised as the court must adjudicate the issues in dispute. The South African Government states that an opposed divorce takes between 2 and 3 years to be finalised.

Generally, opposed divorces in the regional courts are finalised much faster than in the High Courts.  This is due to the long waiting time for trial dates in the High Courts.

The Issues in Dispute Can Be Anything and May Include Any Of The Following Issues: 

Parental Rights and Responsibilities include who will be the primary caregiver of the minor children after the divorce, child maintenance, and contact for the non-primary caregiver.

Division of assets in terms of the Ante-Nuptial Agreement or of the joint estate. I.e., who will keep what assets and what liabilities?

Spousal maintenance – if it is payable or not, and if so, in what amount.

What Is the Cost Of An Opposed Divorce?

A divorce attorney typically charges a nominal or agreed fee for an uncontested divorce; a contested divorce is usually billed hourly.

This is because an attorney cannot easily estimate a cost due to many variables, such as a provisional application that may have to be brought and the issues in dispute.

Interim Applications may include Rule 43 Applications (High Court) or Rule 58 Applications (Regional Courts), Applications to Compel, Domestic Violence Applications and many more types of Applications.

An opposed divorce can cost from R20 000 to several hundreds of thousands of Rands.

Read more about “How Much Does A Divorce Lawyer Charge?”

What Expenses Must Be Paid During An Opposed Divorce?

With an opposed divorce, various experts may be briefed by the attorneys.  These experts may include Forensic Auditors, Actuaries, Industrial Psychologists, Clinical and Forensic Psychologists and others.

If the Parties cannot afford these experts, presenting a party’s case to the courts may be more difficult.

It is even more critical to appoint experts if a party fails to cooperate or actively hides assets in their estate. Sometimes a spouse will inflate their liabilities.

When Should You Contest a Divorce?

While many people will tell you to get an unopposed divorce and not to contest your divorce, there are times when you should oppose your divorce.

The Concealment of Assets or The Inflation of Liabilities.

It often happens that a divorcing spouse conceals assets from you and your Attorney.

When the court must decide, or if you plan to settle the matter and do not know the whole story, you may settle the divorce to your detriment. This mostly happens when a spouse owns their own business or they have shares in multiple companies.

Besides this, a spouse may artificially inflate their liabilities so they do not have to pay out as much as is due. They can do this in many ways, such as taking out loans to ‘pay off their expenses’ before or during the divorce.

The Best Interests of Children

If your spouse wants you to settle and asks for something that is not in the best interest of the minor children, you should oppose the divorce.

For example, a parent may want the primary residence of the minor children, despite them not being actively involved in their lives.

Spousal Maintenance

It often happens in practice that a spouse devotes their entire life to the children’s upbringing.

The spouse, as the breadwinner, then refuses to pay for spousal maintenance at divorce, and the other spouse cannot generate an income or can only generate a basic income.

Contested or Opposed Divorces - What You Need to Know!

The Five Steps of Divorce Procedure: Preparation of An Opposed Divorce Involves Various Procedures And Includes The Following Five Steps:

  • Preparation
  • Issuing of the Summons
  • Settlement
  • Discovery
  • Trial

Understanding the procedure better should give you some idea of the way forward. Often, when you understand the various steps and stages, it can help to reduce the fear of the unknown and prepare you for the way forward.

If you want a better understanding of the entire process, readThe Divorce Process in South Africa.”


During consultations with our clients, we obtain a complete overview of the case by asking many questions.

We will also require documentation from the Client to understand the legal issues and facts of the matter.

Issuing of the Summons

Once the documents have been signed, they are delivered, first to the applicable court to obtain a case number and then to the Sheriff concerned – this is decided upon according to the jurisdictional area applicable.

These documents are known as the Combined Summons and Particulars of Claim, together with annexures.  They are generally served personally upon the spouse of our Client, who then has ten working days to respond.

Once the ten days have passed and a notice to defend the matter has been received, the Defendant (the spouse) should file a Plea and a Counterclaim.


Settlement can occur at any stage of the divorce, meaning it could happen during the preparation phase or just before or during the trial.

However, the standard and most acceptable place would be after filing the pleadings and after the discovery process.

If the settlement is successful, we will draft a settlement agreement that sets out in writing all the details that have been discussed and agreed upon by both spouses.

Both spouses then sign this in the presence of the witnesses concerned. To reach a settlement at this point will make things a lot easier and less expensive.

Once the settlement agreement is signed, the matter may be placed on the unopposed court roll.


We ask the Client to bring specific documents – many documents – to amass as much relevant information as possible.

The Client will be asked for bank and credit card statements, property documents; emails; pension data; and many other documents.

The Attorney of your Spouse will do the same thing. The Attorneys then share their collected information so that they have not only the information about their Client but also the information about their legal opponent’s Client.

This helps the attorneys understand their legal opponents’ focus and ensures that neither spouse hides anything to gain an unfair advantage.


Most matters don’t get to this stage as settlement usually takes place before Trail.

However, in the unlikely event that the case proceeds to trial, the length of the trial – i.e. how many days it is expected to be in court – is usually decided by the number of matters in dispute.

Some Trials might last a day, whereas others could go on for several days – and, in some cases, even longer.

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Final Thoughts on Contested or Opposed Divorces – What You Need to Know!

An opposed divorce takes time to get to court for a trial.  Not many divorce cases will go to trial.

The best-prepared spouse typically has the best results in an Action for divorce.


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